Discussion: DNF-ing.

Today I'm coming to you with a question:

Do you DNF books?

(Did Not Finish)

I ask this for several reasons:

1. First and foremost I needed a discussion topic for today.

2. I just recently DNFed a book so it was on my mind.

3. I have been seeing other people talking about this more lately.

Before I started blogging, I can think of one book that I ever DNFed. That book was Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert. I felt kind of bad about it because it was a book that my grandma had bought me and it was like $20 for a paperback. But I got to like, page 30 and I could not go on.

I tried reading it again and I had the same problem. I might have pushed myself to read at least a couple more pages than I had the first time because it pained me to leave it unread. But once again, I simply could NOT do it! I don't really remember what my problem with it was, but I guess I don't want to try a third time to see if I can figure it out.

I have pushed myself through many a book that I didn't want to finish simply because I bought the book, therefore I had to get my money's worth of it.

Examples would include:

Shatter Me & Destory Me by Tahereh Mafi

The Fifty Shades of Grey books by E.L. James

Nights in Rodanthe by Nicholas Sparks

(This one I was stuck in the waiting room of a hospital with while I was waiting for my dad to get some procedure done so I really had nothing better to do than read it.)

Paper Towns by John Green

An Abundance of Katherines by John Green

The Mortal Instruments series by Cassandra Clare

(This one is mostly because I had already invested so much time into the series that I had to see it to the end, but I wish I wouldn't have.)

Since I started blogging last year, I have become at least a little bit more okay with the idea of DNFing a book. I think at least part of that acceptance comes from the fact that they've all been review copies I've DNFed and therefore I don't feel like I'm throwing my money away by not finishing it.

I still really don't enjoy it. I feel bad about it. I don't really know why I should feel bad, but I do. That book I DNFed deserved to be loved more than I was able to love it.

All that being said, I've only DNFed five books that I can think of.

Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert

Beyond the Red by Ava Jae

The Sisters of Versailles by Sally Christie

Black Dove White Raven by Elizabeth Wein

Sleeping Giants by Sylvain Neuvel

I've seen a lot of good points people have made about DNFing books. I never really thought about it before that much because I don't do it very often.

From these points, I have started to adopt some new etiquette for my DNFs.

I created a DNF exclusive shelf on Goodreads, since if I didn't finish it, I can't really say that I read it. I suppose it could depend on how far I made it into the book, but I'm pretty sure that I bailed fairly early in all of my DNFs.

I got rid of all the star ratings I gave to books I DNFed because if I didn't even make it far enough into any of them to feel like I could count them as read, I sure didn't read far enough to give it a fair rating. Plus if you don't rate it, it looks like it has zero stars and that seems accurate for me.

I have seen where people don't think that you should review books you didn't finish, but I like to kind of recap what I all read and explain why it didn't work out for me. I think that's fair. I like to post them to my blog too because you know, that's something to post.

What will cause you to DNF a book and when do you decide to DNF?

When I DNFed the first book that I just couldn't finish, I asked on Twitter what was an acceptable place to decide to quit and most people told me 100 pages. So the first couple books I DNFed I made it to at least 100 pages before I said NO MORE!

Then I started to see more people saying they wait til at least page 50 to see if it hooks them and that made me feel so much better about DNFing Black Dove White Raven at page 68.

There's really nothing specific about a book that I have found that makes me go, okay no more. Like if the characters are awful or the romance is awful or anything like that.

Basically I have based my DNFs on how big my sense of dread is when I think about having to pick that book back up. Or how boring it is up until the point I find it acceptable to DNF at.

I have put books a couple of my listed books down because I was so bored. I put one down because I hated the format of it. It was a lot of info dump too. I put one down because the romance made me dread having to pick it up again.

What about you? Do you DNF? Why do you DNF? What is your DNF etiquette? Lay it all on me.